Tell Me About … Mindset #24

The topic for this time on Tell Me About … is MINDSET, but first we would like to thank everyone who linked up posts about Control the last time. We were also really pleased to be able to welcome some writers who were new to Tell Me About, so if you haven’t read the posts already then please check them out.  We realise that everyone is busy but if you have the time to read and comment on posts, that is always encouraging for those who have written them and much appreciated.

Featured Post

The featured post this week is by Morag’s Moist Musings. I love the way that Morag writes and the way she combines humour with serious and sexy. Her post  Empowerment through sucking cock was not only interesting and enjoyable to read, but also posed some interesting questions about oral sex and control. 

There are a couple of activities however, where the balance shifts.  The first is the humble hand-job and the second is the blow-job.  With these two activities, it is us women doing it to the men.  OK, so ultimately it still leads to his orgasm, but we have the power to grant or deny that release. Read More


Being in the right mindset is key to D/s working well. This time we are asking about the things that you do to get in the right mindset and how that impacts on your Dominance or submission. Are there things which trigger the right mindset? What sorts of things can push you out?  Do you do things yourself to maintain the right mindset or does it need to come from things that your partner does for you?

Please post all about the part that Mindset plays for you, and then link for us here on Tell Me About…

As always, please respond to the prompt in a way which works for you.

If you are new then please check out the rules and then take part by adding your post using the linky tool at the bottom of the page. Remember to display the Tell Me About … badge on your post, and  please comment on the other posts and promote on social media where possible.

If you would like more information about the how and the why, the what and the how of taking part, then you might want to read my post, Memes and Prompts.

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